sophia

Hi Everyone Wanted to update you on what going on @ mlt. We now are certified with Xtreme Lashes, eyelash extensions. They are beautiful and natural looking. Check out www.xtremelashes.com and our site www.mylongtresses.com. We are also hiring an assistant so if you are licensed and would like to work in a fun environment pleases dont hesitate to call. I no longer work in fitness modeling as the company has grown to much for me to travel all the time. That said Sophia was the name that was used for tyhat business. I am now going by my real name...CJ. You may have seen my photo recently in STUFF magazine, I am wearing So.Cap Extensions. They look beautiful. I still get quite a few emails from this site...thankyou for giving me the opportunity yo help make you look beautiful. www.mylongtresses.com You can always email me your questions about So.Cap, Extensions, Lashes etc @ info@mylongtresses.com.

looks great. i checked out your photos...wonderful! it is great to see another stylist who is not limited in her career. all the best to you :) sophia

Hair Dreams...correction...not California Dreams...Hair Dreams is from California. Wonderful line and non bond extensions. The hair is also top quality..and now she is going to be in Annapolis tomorrow, if you would like to meet with her please email me and I will let you know her wherabouts.

Extension Stylist. California Dreams is in town this Saturday. She is hosting a training seminar this Sunday and Monday. She will also be at our studio during the afternoon on Saturday. If you are interested in this type of non-bond extension and you are Licensed, please email me info@mylongtresses.com. This is a rare training session as she is flying in from LA. Also, for those who keep emailing me for DYS lessons. I honestly wouldn't suggest doing this yourself unless trained by someone certified and who loves what they do. That said, please stop emailing me for instructions. I can barely keep up with the emails-not to mention the the Do It Yourselfr's. There are plenty of resources on the internet if you feel like you need to teach yourself. Just be careful. Carpe Diem

I have received emails about the So.Cap line and those who want to offer this type of service to their clients. Just letting you know that there is a training seminar for all those Certified Cosmetologists with So.Cap Extension company. They are training in NYC the 3-5th and Baltimore Dec 6th. I have been using this system with several of my clients and we all are hooked. If you need the contact number for the course please email me at info@mylongtresses.com and I will forward you the Trainers info. Also for those that live in Charlotte, there is a Hair Extension Spring show coming to your city in March. This is for all who either provide the service or would like to simply learn new hair addition styles. Merry Christmas

Hi Jackie I will email you from my account info@mylongtresses.com. I do have someone (our newest member of the company) who is doing consultations in DC on tuesday. It will be done in her salon in the metro area. She has years of experience and is very knowledgeable with African American & Caucasian Hair. Thankyou for contacting us.

Hey Camille Hope you had a great Turkey Day. I have posted a few photos on my site using your hair. Check it out www.mylongtresses.com Your hair is awsome! As I stated to you before. It was hard for me to find great products when I first moved to the states. Doing hair in Canada was wonderful but making the proper contacts here was a bit hard. Trial and error lead me to you...You are a God Send! WE have just joined forces with one of the best color professionals in MD, she has your hair at her salon and is coloring it as we speak! I will call you before I head to LA again. A big thumbs up to you and your business!

Hi thanks for posting here. I have been taking a small break from this forum. My website is up, please visit WWW.MYLONGTRESSES.COM We have just added two members to our team and are looking forward to 2006. Isabelle, My old roomate and great friend is from France. We lived together for two years, she is a wonderful lady, so full of life. I have been to Europe several times. Love the culture and the fashion! I will be sure to check out your forum/blog. I do know of one in France...let me respond to you with it when I find out more info. Cowboy user...I still have no idea who you are. A name would be great , thanks for sticking up for me. I honestly am so over it, a waste of my time and energy to say the least. If I knew who you were I could envite you to our Christmas Party that we are holding at the studio. It is finally furnished and looks wonderful, thanks to my new business partners! Albert Einstein: Your thoughts create you! Carpe Diem, Sieze the Day. Happy Holidays Ladies!

PS THANKYOU PAM PECK ON MAIN STREET STUDIO FOR CONTACTING ME. IMAGINE THAT...A STYLIST WHO WANTS ME TO DO HER HAIR BECAUSE SHE DOENS'T WANT TO DO HER OWN!

Hello there First of all, your writting is very funny! Not the situation but I love your style. Mabye you should tap into that as a talent. FIrst off all if you can show any web page that states 400 that would be great. Secondly, I am familiar with who this is. I am not going to play games here. I have list of happy clients and if ever something should go wrong, I would fix it. I think it is funny how this came up just now... The contract that was signed was about after care. I have the copy here. It doesn't say anything about not being responsible. It is just to verify that you have read the maintenance form. I have never said not to use Remy hair due to shedding or tangles. HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM very intersting. AS with everyone, if for somereason you are not happy I will always fix the problem. I can't fix it if you don't let me know. If you went in over four weeks later, why wouldn't you contact me and tell me. I did enjoy my time with this client, I remember them all. This is the first person, yes Valencia, the first person who has not come back. Competition is one thing. But as an individual, you really are going for it. OH and the remark about having my fusions done by a stylist, that is very funny! I don't attempt to bond the back of my own head. I enjoy the service. Nice try though. I know several stylists who do the same thing, as a matter a fact, I am doing a trade off tomorrow with a fellow stylist who loves SO>CAP. All in all. I have happy clients. I don't suggest taking them out on your own. It isn't about money it is about BREAKAGE! If you study the process the damage is done while taking them out, not putting them in. Keep em coming, Im not one to back down in somekind of hair war! I love my job and what I do. I do have photos...thankyou verymuch.

Valencia Im not going to waste time sitting here and questioning your skills. THe point is you do it your way and that is fine. I can understand why you are defensive, just the same as I am about you making a comment to me on this forum. I was trained by an African American Female. She has her own business and has won several awards for her work. I am not talking about So.Cap!!!! I am not going to sit here and go back and forth. It is funny though that in my home country, the salons use OIL AND REMOVER to take out the bonds. And that is on all hair types. As I said before, I wish you well. I think you have done a great job on this forum. But your ways of doing hair, yes, work for you...that is great. But you can't press them on every CERTIFIED COSMETOLOGIST AND CERTIFIED EXTENSION STYLIST. All stylist have different ways of doing things. I would never lash out and tell someone that she did something wrong, I would email them and then we could chat and figure out the matter. I can understand your defense but I am happy with the job I do and the clients I have. I will continue to write in this post. My site is almost done and I would be happy to show smiling faces with the job I do. The reason I constantly take courses is to provide better services to my clients. It isn't to make claims about another stylist. Atleast the other stylist who didn't like your way of doing things emailed you privately, rather than posting things on a public forum. AGAIN, all the best to you Valenica. My thoughts still are "what you do on this forum is wonderful for the industry". But when you invite other stylists to the forum you will always get difference of opinion. Yes we can grow together but to slam another stylist first before talking to them is not how I have been trained. Sincerely, Sophie

Im glad you feel that it is on the table. Honestly Valencia, an email will suffice but to make claims on a forum isn't correct. That person, if having her hair done by me, would have been asked to fill out a form, as I do with all my clients, on the form it has a list of products for ALL HAIR TYPES. There is also a after care sheet, which outlines after care... I will always tell clients to not put oil "directly" on their fusion. That will never change. If that 'person' who contacted you misunderstood...mabye you should ask me first my opinon on this via email before posting something one a forum. When we spoke on the phone we talked about this exact thing. Being trained by Caucasians and having experience with Caucasian hair are two different things. The products I suggest to my clients have enough oil, min, but enough to keep their scalp moisturized. I also suggest vitamins, you know I am into fitness and EFA's can make a huge difference in clients hair, skin and nails. I have heard things also but I don't wish to post them in a public place. How you run your business is your own "business". Good luck.

Valencia We use the same product. Try and remember I too have been wearing them and doing them for ten years. I am trained and certified and have documentation stating that oil is not good for fusion bonds. Saying no oil doesn't mean not to condition your hair. I sell shampoo and conditioner in my studio...I do know that if you don't Wash, condition and MOISTURIZE (very important) your hair the extensions do not receive your natural scalp oils and so need to have moisture added every wash. If you don't moisturize your hair extensions they will become brittle and break easily leading to split and ratty ends. As with all clients, no oil products or conditioner before putting the fusion in. It is impossible to find any product out there that doesn't have oil. I have read a post you placed months ago about the same issue. I do believe you are misunderstanding me. That said. The theme of this site is not to “de-bunk” others' opinions on this broad subject, but rather this site is meant to give our customers specific, correct and important information they need to care properly for their new hair extensions. If you would like to talk about this further that would be great but your "remarks" about WARNING ME....are not needed. A discussion yes, everyone has their own way of doing hair. I may be more experienced with Caucasian hair than you and you with African American hair...however as I stated before there are no products that don't contain some type of oil (even min.). I am familiar with the grade of hair you are talking about as it doesnt produce enough sebum...EFA (esential fatty acidss) there are other things other than OIL PRODUCTS you can use. All sorts of EFA vitamins that work internally than externally. Also staying away from Sulfate in your shampoo will help. In my experience, the KERATIN breaks down and after time and time again it will become sticky. KERATIN is the same product you use. And I have been trained to forward this information on to my clients. And that is why I tell them that. I am educating them the way I have been educated. I also have lost bonds and losened them because I often condition my hair ad my own is very dry and brittle. I find it very interesting that you will make certain comments to me here but yet when I ask you to email me you wont. For the third time...My email is admin@mylongtresses.com. I have talked to various females on the phone Valencia, and I always tell them the same thing...you appear to be a nice lady. But It does appear that I may respect you more than you respect me! I would never diss you on a forum. I have told clients to go to you before as I am not into the competition. I am a Caucasian Hair Expert, I have never made claims to be a African AMerican Hair Expert but have quite a few clients who are and love their hair. Unfortunately I thought we could learn from each other but I guess not. The bellow is taken from notes etc that I have kept on file for several years. Here's How: 1. When brushing, use a soft bristle brush and start from the bottom and gently work your way up. 2. Gently tie your hair up while sleeping and never sleep with wet hair. 3. Do not attempt to color your own hair extentions. Head to a salon for this procedure. 4. Running your fingers through the extensions will help prevent tangling. I also suggest using Boar Bristle or loop brush. 5. Do not spray extensions with conditioners or any silicone based products as they can cause the extensions to slip. What About Build-Up and How It happens: Hair extensions can also start to look dull after a time. The cause for this can be by using heavy styling aids or not rinsing well enough. But, what is termed heavy for hair goods, may not be heavy for regular growing hair because of the lack of cuticle (unless you have cuticle or virgin hair). The products we are discussing here should be avoided, and are defined as they are just too heavy for processed hair goods: Oils Waxes Creams Mousses Gels This type of hair needs to be as free of outside products as possible. Allowing the hair to flow freely, without adding anything extra, will give you the best styling advantages. Adding too much of any of these previous products only attracts dirt, and weighs it down and can also losen bonds. I suggest to everyone to use a HYDRATING SHAMPOO THAT STIMULATES THE ROOT AND GROWTH AREA AND ALSO A CONDITIONER enhanced with SILICONE(not base ingredient). There are salon products and other products such as By allowing a small amount of the waxy silicone type derivative to be left on the hair after it is rinsed, it's purpose it to smooth out and cover over any damaged part of the hair. Use every time you shampoo. And. it is also recommended to use lightly after the use of a deep conditioner, especially if you are having trouble keeping your hair hydrated; this can often do the trick (most hydrator do not contain a coating agent. And since it takes many weeks or months to get your hair healthy after it has been damaged(if the client has processed dry hair), this product can help make it "feel" as if is, and there is nothing wrong with that! I have spoken my peace.

Hi Valencia A comment about removal... Yes I agree abou the $ for removing. I do show people the technique and have premade bottles for the client, if they should use it. As a matter of fact, I prefer to be the one to take them out for clients and that never makes a profit really but what it does do is lets me have control over what is going on with her hair, ables me to min. damage and also lets me determine her growth and hair health. I recently just did one at no charge because I knew if she attempted it herself it would damage her hair and to me, it was like finger nails down a chalk board. I love what I do. In the past, I myself, have paid hundreds to have my hair taken out...I have walked that mile in clients shoes. Because we both wear extensions, we can fully understand the needs of our clients. This puts us in a category of our own. The stylist who emailed you....well Valencia, not everyone wants to see you succeed! Constructive critisism that wasn't...I love constructive critisism, it ables me to offer more knowledge to my customer. I think you like have two sets of eyes... I on the other hand am happy for your advice, love to learn about African American Hair Grade and I appreciate what you are trying to give back in the world of Extensions.

Hi Valencia I can understand your comment about oil BUT how can you put oil on a bond? In the past, bonds slip from oil so I am a bit lost here. I love your advice but I dont' understand. We have spoken about this before about finding products that are low oil...I always tell everyone to keep oil away from the bonds for the obvious reason. Please let me know, you are AFrican American and obviously know more about the slippage on your hair with the keratin....Im excited to have your response. ALSO REGARDING MY ORDER, IT HAD NOTHING TO DO OF THE STORM. I AM AWARE OF THAT. IT WAS AN ORDER THAT WAS ALREADY SHIPPED BUT SENT TO THE WRONG ADDRESS.