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Guest Mercedes in District Heights   
Guest Mercedes in District Heights

Hey Sistas, do you know what it takes to please a man in bed? It pains me to see my friends going from man to man. Their needs are simple -- and once you master the basics, you'll delight your man so much, he

will never want to leave your crib.

 

 

Here's How:

1. Perform adult activity. For the majority of men, nothing is as satisfying as the intensity of pleasure they experience during fellatio.

 

2. Take responsibility for your own orgasm. He's happiest in bed when he knows you enjoy sex as much as he does. So learn about your body and know what it takes to turn you on.

 

3. Communicate your desire. He won't know what feels good and what you love in bed unless you communicate. So tell -- or better yet -- show him.

 

4. Let him see you unclothed. Men are turned on by the visual, so don't be bashful. Make love with the lights on, and remember that women tend to be far more critical about their bodies than men are.

 

5. Discover his erogenous zones. His penis isn't the only part of his body that experiences pleasure. Learn if he likes to have his nipples, scrotum, earlobes, feet, or other parts of his body touched.

 

6. Be inventive and experimental. Don't be afraid to try something new in bed -- a new position, tantric sex, mutual masturbation. You may end up adding something great to your regular bedroom repertoire.

 

7. Follow his lead. If he kisses you in a special place or touches you a certain way, try doing the same back to him. Also get him to show you how he masturbates -- and learn to do it for him just the way he likes.

 

8. Don't forget the sexy lingerie. Even girls who sleep in T-shirts will find wearing something red-hot once in a while is a guaranteed man-pleaser. Especially when combined with a slow striptease.

 

9. Share fantasies. Tell him yours, and invite him to share his with you. Take the fantasies to the next level and act them out if you're both comfortable doing that.

 

10. Let him know how turned on you are. Talk dirty to heighten his excitement and yours.

 

Tips:

Don't criticize him in bed. He's at his most vulnerable there, and words that are harsh or cavalier may be long remembered. If you do have a sex problem, address it when you're not in an intimate setting.

Let him know he's the best ever. That's one reason you want him, right?

 

My ladies in the Heights. This was meant for you.

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Guest andari   
Guest andari

aint none of this ish true. if yall want to see how to please a man then just ask a man what do a women knwo about that? i mean really.

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Guest Gina   
Guest Gina

Amen, if your man can last that long... You don't have to read a book on how to get it on. don't be silly.

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Guest DCgentleman   
Guest DCgentleman

Speaking as a man, I wish all women will follow these guidelines. Everything she said is true.

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Guest luv'in Brothas   
Guest luv'in Brothas

Ditto---Ditto

 

So true that's what's going wrong in relationship. People not satisfied!!! :D

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Guest Hot-N-Bothered   
Guest Hot-N-Bothered

The way sex really is is a guy on top of you,pounding away like your a piece of meat or something. He'll watch your boobs bounce, want you to squeal (which you do because you just love him so much, right?), then finally he'll say, "Aww..yeah." You close your legs, and he turns over. Don't do all this licking the ear lobes and pulling hair bullcrap for a 5 second good feeling. Use all that time to get drunkw ith your friends instead. They appreciate your company more than humpdy dumpdy anyway.

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Guest Kerry   
Guest Kerry

I think a lot of women are unsatisfied in bed therefore aren't interested in spicing things up to satisfy their man. Communication is key. Everyone's interested in getting theirs when if you're focused on pleasing your partner, it will enhance your experience more than you think. I don't agree that sex is hump hump, squeal for him, he rolls over and then starts to snore in your ear. It's only that way if there is no feeling involved. But, when you care about/love a person and those feelings are mutual, sex is a time to express your deepest love for one another, aiming to please b/c that person means so much to you and you want to make them happy. My boyfriend and I perform oral for one another for 30 mins. or more sometimes, he talks to me while he's giving himself to me, asking what I want more or less of, we spoon afterwards or lay entangled in one another and talk. Then we shower together, kiss one another ,and say goodnightI couldn't imagine it being any other way.

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Guest YepIt'sMe   
Guest YepIt'sMe

A lot of women have been dealin' with youngin's pretending to be men for so long they actually believe that we don't enjoy foreplay, 'pound away' at thgem, and roll over and go to sleep afterward. Sorry to hear that ladies; but y'all need to raise your standards a bit. Some of the ladies are getting just what they deserve because that Escalade on dub-sixes got 'em interested BEFORE the convo even started; then they complain about not being satisfied or that all men are... "insert dog reference here". Believe me, there's enough blame to go around, but rarely do I see on these boards women callin' out their 'sisteren' for their shiesty behavior...funny how that works out... B)

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Guest Chloe'   
Guest Chloe'

Ladies.... give it up to him. Don't be shy when it comes to the adult activity. Do ya' thing , and do it well. Show him your skills one by one. make him say YOUR name!

Dudes love it when you try somethin new. Be a freak every once in a while and let him know what the buisness is!!

do ya' thing!!! ;)

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Guest Guest   
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I have great sex. All u need to do is find out what he likes an how he likes it to done then do it, u can't go far wrong.

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Guest Guest   
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Actually,i think these guidleines are helpful. i've done wit my b/f but stil he says its boring for him , so any help to spice up my sexual life. plz help

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Guest kelly   
Guest kelly

I want to know what he want me to do while we are donig it. Because I was told that I was no good in bed that I just laid in bed. What he wants me to do?????

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Guest Guest   
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i want to know as well, what kind of words women say while having sex. You know men like their women talking dirty when having sex.

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Guest Jen   
Guest Jen

My husband loves it when I say things like, "ophh.. right there, " "you feel so good inside me" "Harder" or whatever you prefer. Don't be shy to say dirty words in bed, the men love it! Chances are, it will heighten both of your sex lives after a little practice with words... and for the woman who asked what she should do in bed instead of lay there..... if your on bottom, thrust your hips with him, wrap your legfs around his back, butt, move your stomach side to side in a sexy motion, like dancing sexy.. you can do it.

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Guest DC Wiz   
Guest DC Wiz

Newness is better then viagra. Dressing the part or moderate to severe variation in pre-sexual conversation, attire or action can stimulate the mental, the physical and the spiritual so that if both partners fall into deep bliss after erotic encounters you just might be experiencing love and that makes my world go round everyday. Can I get an Amen. Knowing your partners zones and touching them ever so sensually can soothe the savage beast, relieve the lambs lost way and ground the predatory bird. Todays life schedules are pressure oriented and we need one another in a very repectful and loving way. In competition its all about me but in my relationships it has to be all us and the spirit.

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Newness is better then viagra. Dressing the part or moderate to severe variation in pre-sexual conversation, attire or action can stimulate the mental, the physical and the spiritual so that if both partners fall into deep bliss after erotic encounters you just might be experiencing love and that makes my world go round everyday. Can I get an Amen. Knowing your partners zones and touching them ever so sensually can soothe the savage beast, relieve the lambs lost way and ground the predatory bird. Todays life schedules are pressure oriented and we need one another in a very repectful and loving way. In competition its all about me but in my relationships it has to be all us and the spirit.

AAAmeen!!!

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Guest Guest   
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I've tried to please my man on bed, but i feel like he isnt satisfied or what i'm doing isnt right.

 

Help plz plz plz

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Guest UNKNOWN   
Guest UNKNOWN

Get a life. What men really want is someone who genuinely enjoys pleasing them. Talk about it, without communication and some kind of bond deeper than your raging hormones you can mutually discuss what pleases you BOTH. Because if it isn't mutually satisfying, there is no way you can be enthusiastic enough to really please him

 

I know, i've been there a few times (38 and divorced)

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